5 Ways to Find a Single Bisexual Woman for Threesome
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Are you one of bisexual couples thinking about having a threesome with a single woman? Are you one of bisexual women looking for couples for threesome? Maybe you have watched threesome porn together or thought about going to a sex club or putting up an ad online to look for a third, but you have never enjoyed being a part of the affection of a couple and hotness of a threesome. Here are 5 ways to find a single bisexual woman for threesome.
1. Decide what you want and like before nekkid time.
Dirty talking about a third person during sex is a lot different than unpacking the logistics and emotions that need to be in place for a hot threesome in reality. Talk to your bisexual partner about what turns you on about adding another woman into your twosome. If it's your first time having threesome sex, enjoy it and learn some useful experience.
2. Go to Unicorn Night at Oasis Aqualounge.
Oasis Aqualounge is a water themed adult playground in downtown Toronto. The beautiful venue and awesome staff create a clothing-optional environment where you can choose to explore your sexuality. Unicorn Night is where bisexual couples and single females mingle to make some hot magic happen. It's a busy, flirty and friendly evening that happens once a month.
Oasis is a fantastic place for bisexual couples and bisexual women mingling because it is blooming with social spaces to mingle nude and semi-nude. Unlike other clubs that have a dance floor/club area and then a separate play area, Oasis’s layout and spa facilities (e.g. hot tub, sauna and heated outdoor pool!) create nooks and crannies that feel welcoming, friendly and way less awkward than your eighth grade dance.
3. Engage, instead of objectifying.
Single women have had couples make them feel like an object from the moment they approached them. While the attention can be flattering for an elusive sexual partner like one of single women looking for couples, it can also make you feel like a stunt vagina. Some women looking for couples may really enjoy just being an extra body for the carnal, primal heat of it. Many women looking for couples want to feel sexually stimulated in mind and body, regardless if it’s for one-night or on-going.
Engaging a single woman looking for couple doesn't mean you want her permanently in the emotional sacredness of your relationship. It acknowledges her as an active participant in the threesome. It elevates her desires to the level of importance as yours. And it makes everyone feel luscious as fuck.
4. Be champions of other people’s pleasure (OPP).
Be a generous giver of pleasure. How do you know what makes women looking for couples feel good? Communicate curiously.
I'm a huge proponent of OPP for group sex, and sex in general. Couples can often get caught up in their fantasy of a single woman and forget that said single woman isn't a fantasy, she's a real person with needs, desires and kinks of her own. It's not only the desires, expectations and style of the couple that matters. Learn about the women looking for couples you are approaching or who approach you by being curious.
Look. Listen. Learn. Group sex means more bodies and more emotions. You aren't responsible for OPP, but you are responsible for contributing to an environment where OPP is paramount. Make it safe for people to have the kind of sex they want in your fantasy.
5. Cultivate consent.
Consent should be on-going, enthusiastic and clear. Consent isn't just the absence of an outright 'No'. For many threesomes, you are all relatively new to each other and haven't yet learned what it looks like, sounds like and feels like when your partners are having a good time.
If you are lucky enough to charm a single woman looking for couple into your bed, continue with OPP during your threesome. Make her feel welcome, desired and continually engage her in consent regularly throughout your sexy time. Making assumptions about what's pleasureable for someone is not only not-cool, but also makes a single woman looking for couple get her guard up having to watch as you continually test her boundaries instead of asking.
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